Helping Christian Women

Thrive in Identity Before Marriage

Without a strong sense of self you enter relationships and lose yourself. If you are a woman desiring marriage, can you withstand the ups and downs of marriage based on a solid knowledge of your identity?

Without a strong sense of identity, you give up your own needs for others’, and you allow cultural expectations to control you and your decisions. Ask yourself this: What is my identity if I never get married? Who am I without acclamations, roles, titles, and pedigrees?

I’ll help you answer these questions before you become a wife.

Do you really know who you are and why God put you here?

You need Identity Work If You:

Want a strong personal identity before marriage

Desire a purposeful life with less fear

Need courage and confidence to be who you are in any relationship

Need a deeper understanding of yourself so you can show up authentically

Need clarity for major life-altering decisions

Want to set healthy boundaries and make consistent sound decisions

Want to live in integrity and make choices that serve the ‘true you’

Tend to self-sabotage, procrastinate, or frequently backslide

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3 Benefits of Thriving in Identity

Clear conscious- You will be able operate in relationships without the fear of doing something wrong. Plus your relationship with God improves because your intentions are pure.

Less likely to beat yourself up when you disappoint yourself or others. With the tools I give you, you’ll know how to deal with intimidating life circumstances.

No more self-sabotaging- You get to know what your true self requires and how to serve her

Lack of Identity May LOOK LIKE THIS:

You’re controlled by your thoughts

You separate yourself from your behavior

You don’t know why you do what you do

You just want to feel alive. You feel that nothing you do matters

You want to be a wife but lack wifely behavior

You take advantage of other people

You do good things in public, but have a secret, private life

You are reactive, not proactive

You are unable to think deeply

You point fingers at people, not yourself

Everything you do is for attention

“You are worthy—

before a wedding ring “

In 2012, Shawandie Beale learned that bad habits, tears, and suppressed feelings do not lead to the life that many people dream of—a life of freedom and confidence. Now, Shawandie teaches women how to actualize inner healing through intentional identity work.

When academics, athletic recognition, and friends drifted away, Shawandie found herself frantically searching for something to attach to for a sense of belonging, which she talks more about here.

Confidence in who you are must become more important than wanting to be a wife (as a form of validation).

We’re all temporarily upheld by social status and people-pleasing until, one day, we take a long, hard look in the mirror and find ourselves looking back at someone we don’t know.

With Identity Coaching, Christian women will find their true identity before they get married. Imagine being a wife with a strong sense-of-self that both you and others admire.

Many do not get to this place soon enough, because they are busy obsessing over their next endeavor. Your single season is an opportunity to come into your identity and walk in worth and purpose.

Shawandie Beale Identity Coaching is dedicated to helping single women find who they are, while building their self-confidence through a sense of purpose.

Marriage is beautiful and marriage is hard work. The best marriages are comprised of two individuals who know how to resolve issues within themselves first, before attacking each other.

A wedding ring does not determine self-worth; Identity and purpose does. Start walking in truth TODAY.

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Shawandie Beale is an Identity Coach, walking with you as you develop a strong identity as a single woman.

Testimonial

A. Fudge-Guerra

Ever felt two opposing things at once? Happy yet sad? Excited yet somehow dissatisfied? I felt whole yet broken. Like a sturdy cistern waiting to be filled but discovering new cracks daily, I did not know how to patch these cracks well enough to carry something worthwhile. I was empty and without. God’s provision of Shawandie, far surpassed my greatest request. I was very much so a “I’ll handle this on my own,” “don’t nobody need to be in my business,” kind of girl. I never felt satisfied. I never felt accomplished after facing things alone. Shawandie has been a monumental asset in my journey to wholeness. Shawandie hopes in the Lord. She places all her bets on Christ Jesus—all her eggs in one basket, if you will. She has been a constant source of authenticity for me. She has shown me how to fight right. I am never at the mercy of chance; God is always in control. The Lord has used Shawandie mightily in my life. She walks the talk.

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